Creating a Parent Sleep Schedule with a Newborn to Get Better Sleep
Yes, It’s Completely Rational to Create a Sleep Schedule With a Newborn
Sleep training often gets a bad wrap in the world of social media, with many moms-to-be concerned they are far too strict and harming their baby. However, sleep training or creating a sleep schedule is a structured approach to managing your and your baby’s sleep and feeding schedule needs. There are a range of styles and methods you can look into and decide which ones works best for your family and parenting style. Creating a sleep schedule for your newborn can include specific sleep training methods, such as the Ferber or Weissbluth methods. Contrary to common misconceptions, implementing a sleep schedule is neither overboard nor overly intense. It is a practical method to balance the demands of early parenthood, helping to decrease exhaustion and enhance overall well-being. By adopting this approach, parents can navigate the early, often challenging weeks of parenting with greater ease and confidence!
A Guide to Baby Sleep Needs (and Yours Too!)
It’s normal to have anxiety about your baby sleeping. No one is their best when they’re not getting enough sleep and that includes your newborn. You may be worried your little one won’t develop healthily without enough sleep, or you may have heard horror stories of how little sleep some parents get with a new baby. A sleep schedule can help calm these fears.
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Understanding Newborn Baby Sleep Needs
How Newborns Sleep
Newborns have shorter sleep cycles than adults, often cycling between light and deep sleep every 50-60 minutes. They spend more time in REM sleep, essential for brain development. Understanding how your baby sleeps, including the total hours of sleep in 24 hours and developing a circadian rhythm, can help you anticipate when your baby might wake up. This helps you to plan your sleep accordingly! We know it’s easier said than done, but you can achieve restful sleep with a newborn it just takes a little planning.
Creating a Conducive Sleep Environment
- Maintaining a consistent bedtime routine
- Ensuring the room is dark and quiet
- Using soothing techniques such as swaddling or using white noise.
The Importance of Daytime Naps
Daytime naps are essential for newborns as they contribute to their overall sleep needs. Ensuring your baby gets adequate daytime sleep can help prevent your baby from being overtired, which makes it harder for them to settle at night. Aim for multiple short naps throughout the day to keep your baby well-rested. This is a good time for you to rest because mama’s sleep is essential, too.
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Recognizing Sleep Cues
The Role of Feeding in Sleep
Feeding indeed plays a significant role in your newborn’s sleep patterns. Breast milk has natural sleep-inducing properties that can be particularly beneficial for nighttime feedings. Making sure your baby is well-fed before bedtime can help them sleep longer stretches. Whether you’re breastfeeding, formula-feeding, or using a combination of both, establishing a feeding routine that aligns with your sleep schedule can make a big difference in how well your baby sleeps and, consequently, how well you rest too. Bottle feeding allows your partner to play a more active role and help with middle of the night wake-ups.
Addressing Parental Sleep Deprivation
Sleep deprivation is a common challenge for new parents, who often find themselves severely sleep-deprived. Seriously, make sure you get some rest. This might involve taking shifts with your partner, napping when your baby naps, and ensuring your sleep environment is as restful as possible.
Your Baby’s Sleep
Your Sleep
Mama, your sleep is equally important.
Prioritizing your rest is not just a luxury; it’s essential for nurturing your overall well-being. New motherhood is demanding, and aligning your sleep patterns with your newborn’s can offer significant relief. Remember, restorative sleep is not simply about duration but also about the quality of the sleep you receive. You’re better equipped to care for your little one by taking care of yourself.
Aim for naps during your baby’s sleep.
- Those short naps during the day won’t make up for lost nighttime sleep, but they can help ease immediate fatigue. Gentle exercise can also be a great way to manage the stress and tiredness that come with early parenthood. As your baby gets older and their sleep patterns become more regular, you’ll find your own sleep schedule improving too.
- Investing in good sleep hygiene practices and relaxation exercises can really boost your sleep quality. In the meantime, try to create a sleep environment that mimics nighttime conditions with dim lighting and minimal noise. This can help you get more restful and efficient sleep.
Focusing on your sleep alongside your newborn’s sleep needs helps ensure you are emotionally and physically resilient. This balance is fundamental in adjusting to the demands of parenthood without undermining your health.
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Example Newborn Night Shift Schedules
For two-parent households, sleep schedules can be divided into shifts, with one parent taking the first half of the night and the other taking the second half or flip flop nights. Sharing nighttime feedings with a partner can ensure at least one stretch of solid sleep for each parent. This allows both parents to get uninterrupted sleep and ensures that the baby is always attended to.
Establishing a night shift sleep schedule for you and your partner can significantly enhance your rest, creating a structured environment that accommodates your newborn’s frequent waking. A systematic approach ensures you share responsibilities evenly. Here are three types of schedules to consider:
- Formula-Exclusive Schedule: One parent shifts from 10 PM to 2 AM, while the other covers from 2 AM to 6 AM. This allows each parent to have a solid block of uninterrupted sleep.
- Pumping-Exclusive Schedule: Divide the night into three-hour shifts, enabling each partner to have multiple blocks of continuous sleep. For example, one parent might take 9 PM to 12 AM, the other from 12 AM to 3 AM, and so on.
- Combination Schedule: This schedule offers flexibility if you mix breastfeeding and formula feeding. One parent might handle the early-night formula feedings from 10 PM to 2 AM, while the other takes over breastfeeding from 2 AM to 6 AM. Remember, each family’s needs are unique. Regularly communicate and adjust to find what works best as you navigate these changes together.
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How to Plan Out Your Perfect Newborn Sleep Schedule
Learn About Newborn Sleep Needs and Habits
You’ve already taken the first step by reading this blog—great job! Research shows newborns typically sleep 14-17 hours daily, often fragmented due to their frequent feedings. Understanding why babies fight sleep and finding solutions that work for your family will set you up for success.
Prioritize Your Sleep Hygiene
Be Open to Tweaking the Schedule
Set Yourself Up for Success Before Bedtime
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Communicate and Adjust
Flexibility and patience are key. Regularly communicate with your partner and adjust the plan to ensure it works for everyone. Don’t be afraid to hire a sleep expert if you are really struggling to find a balance. Download The Matrescence App to find providers and products in our free motherhood marketplace.
When Will Your Baby Sleep Longer?
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